8 min
When Good Advice Turns Into Control
How to tell whether your help is increasing another person’s capability or preserving your need to remain central to the decision.
Character & Repair
A strong feeling can tell you something matters. It cannot tell you that you are right.
Lessons about anger, pride, apology, inherited patterns, useful responsibility, and what deserves to travel forward.
The question underneath it
What are you still trying to win that no longer deserves the cost?
Where the book goes
- Mad Wasn't the Same as Right
- Things I Don't Try to Win Anymore
- Being Needed Is Not the Same as Being Useful
- What I Hope They Remember